The Definition
Of Friendship
"If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one
day, so I never have to live without you."
- Winnie the Pooh
"True friendship is like sound health; the value of it is seldom known
until it be lost."
- Charles Caleb Colton
"A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks
out."
"Don't walk in front of me, I may not follow. Don't walk behind
me, I may not lead. Walk beside me and be my friend."
- Albert Camus.
"Friends are the Bacon Bits in the Salad Bowl of Life." "Friendship
is one mind in two bodies."
- Mencius
"Friends are God's way of taking care of us." "If you should die
before me, ask if you could bring a friend."
- Stone Temple Pilots
"I'll lean on you and you lean on me and we'll be okay."
- Dave Matthews Band
"If all my friends were to jump off a bridge, I wouldn't jump with them,
I'd be at the bottom to catch them"
"Everyone hears what you say. Friends listen to what you
say. Best friends listen to what you don't say."
"We all take different paths in life, but no matter where we go, we
take a little of each other everywhere"
- Tim McGraw
"My father always used to say that when you die, if you've got five
real friends, then you've had a great life."
-Lee Iacocca
"Hold a true friend with both your hands."
-Nigerian Proverb
"A friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it
back to you when you have forgotten the words."
-unknown
Pass this on to all of your FRIENDS, even if it means sending it to
the person that sent it to you!
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Some Quotes
Learning and teaching are two of the most important functions in life;
just as loving and being loved are important.
~ Omer Baybars Tek ~
(Professor Of Business, Turkey)
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It does not matter how slowly you go so long as you do not stop.
~ Confucius ~
(BC 551-479, Chinese Ethical Teacher, Philosopher)
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I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is
another step forward.
~ Thomas Edison ~
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You cannot hope to build a better world without improving the individuals.
To that end each of us must work for his own improvement, and at the same
time share a general responsibility for all humanity, our particular duty
being to aid those to whom we think we can be most useful. |
FOR ANYONE NEEDING A
JAR.......
The older I get, the more I enjoy Saturday mornings. Perhaps
it's the quiet solitude that comes with being the first to rise, or maybe
it's the unbounded joy of not having to be at work.
Either way, the first few hours of a Saturday morning are most enjoyable.
A few weeks ago, I was shuffling toward the basement shack with a steaming
cup of coffee in one hand and the morning paper in the other. What
began as a typical Saturday morning, turned into one of those lessons
that life seems to hand you from time to time.
Let me tell you about it. I turned the dial up into the phone
portion of the band on my ham radio in order to listen to a Saturday morning
swap net. Along the way, I came across an older sounding chap, with
a tremendous signal and a golden voice. You know the kind, he sounded
like he
should be in the broadcasting business. He was telling whoever
he was talking with something about "a thousand marbles." I was intrigued
and stopped to listen to what he had to say.
"Well, Tom, it sure sounds like you're busy with your job. I'm
sure they pay you well but it's a shame you have to be away from home and
your family so much. Hard to believe a young fellow should have to
work sixty or seventy hours a week to make ends meet. Too bad you
missed your
daughter's dance recital." He continued, "Let me tell you something
Tom, something that has helped me keep a good perspective on my own priorities."
And that's when he began to explain his theory of a "thousand
marbles." "You see, I sat down one day and did a little arithmetic.
The average person lives about seventy-five years. I know, some live
more and some live less, but on average, folks live about seventy-five
years." "Now then, I
multiplied 75 times 52 and I came up with 3900, which is the number
of Saturdays that the average person has in their entire lifetime.
Now stick with me Tom, I'm getting to the important part."
"It took me until I was fifty-five years old to think about all
this in any detail," he went on, "and by that time I had lived through
over twenty-eight hundred Saturdays. I got to thinking that if I
lived to be seventy-five, I only had about a thousand of them left to enjoy."
"So I went to a toy store
and bought every single marble they had. I ended up having to
visit three toy stores to roundup 1000 marbles. I took them home
and put them inside of a large, clear plastic container right here in the
shack next to my gear. Every Saturday since then, I have taken one
marble out and thrown it away." "I found that by watching the marbles diminish,
I focused more on the really important things in life. There is nothing
like watching your time here on this earth run out to help get your priorities
straight."
"Now let me tell you one last thing before sign-off with you and take
my lovely wife out for breakfast. This morning, I took the very last
marble out of the container. I figure if I make it to next Saturday
then I have been given a little extra time. And the one thing we
can all use is a little
more time." "It was nice to meet you Tom, I hope you spend more time
with your family, and I hope to meet you again here on the band.
75 year Old Man, this is K9NZQ, clear and going QRT, good morning!"
You could have heard a pin drop on the band when this fellow signed
off. I guess he gave us all a lot to think about. I had planned
to work on the antenna that morning, and then I was going to meet up with
a few hams to work on the next club newsletter. Instead, I went upstairs
and woke my
wife up with a kiss. "C'mon honey, I'm taking you and the kids
to breakfast." "What brought this on?" she asked with a smile. "Oh,
nothing special, it's just been a long time since we spent a Saturday together
with the kids. Hey, can we stop at a toy store while we're out?
I need to buy some
marbles." Give your troubled child a hug, your beautiful wife/husband
a compliment, and your aging grandmother a phone call! They will
all appreciate the moment and it will be long-lasting! Be careful
out there, we are all losing our marbles. |